Today's orientation started off early, 8:30 am....with the traditional welcomes from all the VIPs...via video conference. Our main office is in North Brunswick, NJ. So, alot of our support staff are there. But, it was engaging none the less. Our dean, Dr. Joseph Flaherty seems to be in touch with where we are going as a school and what is expected in the workforce from up and coming doctors. He is a graduate of University of Illinois (the largest med school in US) and had work there in various capacities for the past 35yrs. So, he comes with years of progress experience. He was very reassuring of the excellent reputation Ross University School of Medicine has in the work place and has found that many of Ross graduates have achieve high residency placement, even in the most prestigous programs. Like with any other progam, it mainly depends on the person involved. What you put into it, is what you will get out of it.
We haven't been on the island one week yet, and already we are being told to start thinking about leaving...LOL...Our short 16months here on the island is going to fly by we are told...So, they started pointing us in the directions we should start considering at the end of our 4th semester. I know...We just got here..and already we should be thinking about leaving...Well, that is leaving under favorable terms...of course..I was happy to find out that the default site for semester 5 is Miami, FL... Sweet..
Now the intimidation factors: academic grading and promotion system....Semester schedule and curriculum...the real deal...the meat of it all....As the Associate Dean of Education was running down all the facts, times lines and expectations, my heart starts beating fast...My mind begins to race....It is sooo much stuff to get in order. I have to get organized early....I have to come up with a study schedule..I have to find a emergency babysitter.....I have to ...I have to...I have to..the list goes on and on...So, I know what I will be doing this weekend...Going over all my syllabus, and getting my scheudle in place.
I shouldn't have a hard time getting my schedule under control because, Im use to a pretty busy and tight schedule. But, at home, I did have a lot of help..My dear Mother....I begged her to join us...Well, I know everything I need is already provided. A way has already been made for me to be successful here. I know I will meet the right people, get into the right study groups and I will leave here after semester 4, ready continue on.
So, far Jamaal has been a real trooper. He has attended every meeting with me and is enjoying every minute of it. He is really engaged in what is going on. This kid is truly special. Such great discipline already in his life. He sat thru all the segments and not one time bug me about going to the bathroom or when is it going to be over, etc, etc...He was just as engaged in the talks as I was..LOL....As they were explaining to us about the white coat ceremony, he noticed in the picture that everyone had on white coats. He said, "Am I going to be the only person there without a white coat? Can I where one of yours?" He so wants to be a doctor, too....NOW...Well, I guess he flips back and forth between a police officer and a doctor. God bless you son. You can be and do all of the above...there are no limits in this life...
Then came time for the introduction to the PaCE program. I decided to apply. Although there will be some missed lecture becuase of my obligation to the program, it will allow me to keep a tight schedule. Because everytime we meet for PaCE a quiz will be given. Therefore, I would have to be up and current on my studies in order to pass the quizes. Also, after each quiz there is group discussion on the material. The one on one faculty input as to any gray areas in the material. All of this is done before each mini exam....So, when I do get to the exam..I should be well equipped with the necessary information. And another good part is that those in the PaCE program have off site media viewing of all lectures. This will help make up the lectures that are missed.
So, that ended our first day of real orientation.
NOW, it's off to the WELCOME BBQ to mix and mingle...
Just like with any new system, there is a learning curve involved. In order to effectively shorten that curve preparation is imperative. Staying on top of things, such as dates and timelines..and most important organization. One thing they did stress is BALANCE....without it life here will be tough. I think Im pretty good at balancing things effectively...So, I look forward to a success first semester...
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Monday, August 29, 2011
Orientation has begun...
Today was the first official day of orientation. Not too bad...A lot of down time in between appointments. I received my school ID and my official white coat.....Okay, this is serious (smiling). I am officially a medical student. This is so AMAZING! Today's events were broken up into two parts: morning and evening. So, the evening were mini lectures on why we have to attend orientation for the rest of the week, and gave us a little history about Dominica.
Now, that I have my white coat and student ID, it is official. I'm in it to win it....During my preparation for medical school, I would actually sit and visualize myself putting on my white coat at the "White Coat Ceremony." And now the white coat ceremony is schuduled for Sept 9th at 1pm...It will be available for viewing live online. So, All my family and friends can experience it with me. If any of you would like to view the ceremony, let me know and I will get you the sign in information.
So, tomorrow's orientation is more detailed about what we should expect this semester. I will also attend the intro to the PaCE program. I think Im going to sign up with it. It will give me some flexibility, which I may need, having my son here with me.
I like the way they had planned events for us all the way up to the start of class. Things like tours of campus, tours of the near by cities, waterfalls, whale watching, beach parties, etc. Im told that once school starts, there's not going to be much time for all of that. So, we better enjoy it now.....Which I am...
Now, we are getting down to the real deal holyfield....Let the fun begin...
Now, that I have my white coat and student ID, it is official. I'm in it to win it....During my preparation for medical school, I would actually sit and visualize myself putting on my white coat at the "White Coat Ceremony." And now the white coat ceremony is schuduled for Sept 9th at 1pm...It will be available for viewing live online. So, All my family and friends can experience it with me. If any of you would like to view the ceremony, let me know and I will get you the sign in information.
So, tomorrow's orientation is more detailed about what we should expect this semester. I will also attend the intro to the PaCE program. I think Im going to sign up with it. It will give me some flexibility, which I may need, having my son here with me.
I like the way they had planned events for us all the way up to the start of class. Things like tours of campus, tours of the near by cities, waterfalls, whale watching, beach parties, etc. Im told that once school starts, there's not going to be much time for all of that. So, we better enjoy it now.....Which I am...
Now, we are getting down to the real deal holyfield....Let the fun begin...
Sunday, August 28, 2011
This is truly amazing...
As I am sitting at my computer tonight, it hits me like a ton of bricks....THIS IS TRULY AMAZING...I am living in the Carribean with my 8yr old son...If you would have told me this 10, 5, 3, or even 1 year ago...I would have said, "Really." But, the experience has been absolutely wonderful...Although school has not started yet, just getting familiar with our newsurroundings is so amazing...
I know I am going to love the atmosphere. I love the water...I grew up at the beach...swimming, skating, riding bikes, etc. So, this carribean atmosphere is very rewarding. I feel like Im at home...I feel a tremendous peace within. I'm at the right place at right time...and for that I am forever grateful..
Do you see the rainbow in the picture below...I took this picture today as we were boating around the island...It was a BLAST...
Rainbows are known to symbolize GOD's promises: a convenant of grace...or even some says that they can be considered bridges from earth to a brighter, happier place.....I like all of those references.
I was in the accompany of some new friends today, but it felt as though we've known each other forever. So, as we shared our stories of triumph and our hope for the future, I could not help but see how wonderful life really is, when you are pursuing destiny. All things work together for good. People come into your life on every level you are on and help pull you up to the next. Those are the people you should have in your life. People that desire to see you continue improving, growing and flourishing in life.
I must say I am blessed to have a tight niche group of supporters that believe in me, my vision, and my dreams. They know I am going to do what I set my heart to...It's funny I was able to chat with a friend yesterday that I havent talked to in a few years. And they were shocked and surprised that Im in Medical School, now. They said, "You were talking about that a few years ago. You did it?" Wow, did they think I was just jaw jacking....
Im glad those that truly know me know, I only say what I mean and do what I say....In order for us to live a TRULY AMAZING LIFE...our words must line up with our actions. I tell my sons that all the time. It is an imperative character trait that you must possess.
Pursue your TRULY AMAZING LIFE....It will manifest...It's never too late..Can you see it?
I know I am going to love the atmosphere. I love the water...I grew up at the beach...swimming, skating, riding bikes, etc. So, this carribean atmosphere is very rewarding. I feel like Im at home...I feel a tremendous peace within. I'm at the right place at right time...and for that I am forever grateful..
Do you see the rainbow in the picture below...I took this picture today as we were boating around the island...It was a BLAST...
I was in the accompany of some new friends today, but it felt as though we've known each other forever. So, as we shared our stories of triumph and our hope for the future, I could not help but see how wonderful life really is, when you are pursuing destiny. All things work together for good. People come into your life on every level you are on and help pull you up to the next. Those are the people you should have in your life. People that desire to see you continue improving, growing and flourishing in life.
I must say I am blessed to have a tight niche group of supporters that believe in me, my vision, and my dreams. They know I am going to do what I set my heart to...It's funny I was able to chat with a friend yesterday that I havent talked to in a few years. And they were shocked and surprised that Im in Medical School, now. They said, "You were talking about that a few years ago. You did it?" Wow, did they think I was just jaw jacking....
Im glad those that truly know me know, I only say what I mean and do what I say....In order for us to live a TRULY AMAZING LIFE...our words must line up with our actions. I tell my sons that all the time. It is an imperative character trait that you must possess.
Pursue your TRULY AMAZING LIFE....It will manifest...It's never too late..Can you see it?
Friday, August 26, 2011
Overloaded...
I can not believe this...Remember, all the dialogue about what I should bring, what I should ship...Well, the truth of the matter is.....I OVER DID IT....my apartment is not big enough for all the stuff I either brought with us or am waiting for via shipping...LOL...I was concerned that we would be missing something...But, the truth of the matter, most of the things we have in the US are luxury items anyway...So, what in the world do I do with all that stuff in those two barrels that are on the way here that I thought needed? Well, I guess the snorkeling gear, my printer, and other electronic stuff (clock/CD/radio), wireless router, etc, etc are needed....
The temperature is so lovely here that you dont need heavy blankets (may not need one at all), coats, or sweaters. So, leave all that stuff at home...The only place you need that stuff is if the A/C is up too high...
The weather is very comfortable.
This a picture that I took on our way to the campus from the airport. Absolutely Paradise...WOW..
The assistance and/or help was great at the airport. Ross had representative to greet you in Puerto Rico and then again once you arrived.
Going through customs was a breeze. As a matter of fact, once I got to my apartment and hooked up my laptop, I have a new friend request. The customs agent found me on facebook and wants to be friends. Is that friendly or is that creepy...LOL...Im not sure how to take that...
I love the fact that I am really close to campus, walking distance. However, coming home up hill all the way is a bear. My back side is sore right, now. Not to mention, this chair at my desk is the worst. I must purchase another tomorrow.
My apartment was what I expected except it was dirty, the floors, bathroom, etc. I spent most of the day bleaching everything down. The apartment manager is really nice. He has been very accommodating. By the time we got to our apartment it was 8:30pm and I had nothing to feed Jamaal. Although Ross had a reception and the Spousal Org, feed us. He still needed snacks...So, my landlord was able to call the local grocery store and ask the manager if we could come shop after hours. And guess what...She said YES.....I felt like Michael Jackson or some celeb..that closes down a store to shop...LOL....Well, we got our goodies and back to our modest new home.
I had an early morning IT oreintation, Met one of Jamaal's teachers, then opened my Dominica Bank Account, and purchased a local cell phone...So, now the fun begins...I think we are going to do a Syndicate Falls and Trail trip tomorrow....
The temperature is so lovely here that you dont need heavy blankets (may not need one at all), coats, or sweaters. So, leave all that stuff at home...The only place you need that stuff is if the A/C is up too high...
The weather is very comfortable.
The assistance and/or help was great at the airport. Ross had representative to greet you in Puerto Rico and then again once you arrived.
Going through customs was a breeze. As a matter of fact, once I got to my apartment and hooked up my laptop, I have a new friend request. The customs agent found me on facebook and wants to be friends. Is that friendly or is that creepy...LOL...Im not sure how to take that...
I love the fact that I am really close to campus, walking distance. However, coming home up hill all the way is a bear. My back side is sore right, now. Not to mention, this chair at my desk is the worst. I must purchase another tomorrow.
My apartment was what I expected except it was dirty, the floors, bathroom, etc. I spent most of the day bleaching everything down. The apartment manager is really nice. He has been very accommodating. By the time we got to our apartment it was 8:30pm and I had nothing to feed Jamaal. Although Ross had a reception and the Spousal Org, feed us. He still needed snacks...So, my landlord was able to call the local grocery store and ask the manager if we could come shop after hours. And guess what...She said YES.....I felt like Michael Jackson or some celeb..that closes down a store to shop...LOL....Well, we got our goodies and back to our modest new home.
I had an early morning IT oreintation, Met one of Jamaal's teachers, then opened my Dominica Bank Account, and purchased a local cell phone...So, now the fun begins...I think we are going to do a Syndicate Falls and Trail trip tomorrow....
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Puerto Rico the Reassurance Station
I learned a valuable lesson from my late husband, plan properly and you want have to rush getting checked in at the airport. This time I took heed to his advise. We arrive at Houston Intercontinental Airport two hours early. And a good thing, too. All my luggage was overweight. So, I had to purge some things. Thank God my mother hung around and waited...
I just want to take a moment to thank my mother for all her love and devotion over the pass two years. She is a real soldier. If you ever need someone on your team thru the storm and rain...She's the one...LOYAL should be her first name...Love you Mother Dearest...
So, I got all the checked luggage down to 50lbs., and me and my little one were off...Starting our new lives, venturing on our new found territory...It feels good...
We touched down in Puerto Rico...staying here overnight at a resort on the beach...The kicker is, the last three days a hurricane was passing by...So, all water activities have been suspended...But, Im just glad to be "closer to my dream"....
Taking the taxi to the hotel was easy and simple. A porter greeted us at the Airport to help us with our 4 large bags and 3 carryons..That was great...He took us straight to a van taxi..($5 tip). Our hotel was less than 5miles away...taxi fees $11.50 plus $1 per bag...thats okay..I understand...It was slow that day and he was trying to make it up on me.....I was just glad someone was there to help us with all that heavy luggage..then the bell hop tip ($5)...So, the cost to get us to our hotel room..$28...not bad for two people, right?
As we walked into our beautiful hotel room, with all the tropical flair, Jamaal looks so sad...Then the tears started flowing...He missed his dog, he missed his brother....MY HEART BROKE....for the first time I felt a little scared. I didnt want him to be sad about all of this...I want him to be his loving and cheerful self...So, I quickly reassured him that we are going to be fine. Christian is at college and even if we were still at home...Christian would still be at college. We will see Christian at Christmas and we will work on getting the dog here as soon as possible. Perhpas, we can get another dog....BOy, did that lift his spirits...I hugged him tightly..And reassured him, we are going to be fine...then I called my mother....She talked him up...next then I know he was fine..watching Good Luck Charlie...or something like that on Nick..Later that evening, as we walked thru the lobby, he said.."I love this place...I dont ever want to leave." He just need reassurance...Don't we all sometimes..
Our plane is scheduled to leave for Dominica at noon in the morning...pick up time 9:30am...Now, we are talking...A representative from Ross with be at the airport to greet us...SO, that's cool..then it's off to our new home....Change is good....
Reassurance is defined as the actions of removing someones doubts or fears. How important is it for you to know you are on the right path in life. Just as an eight year old boy needed reassurance from his mother. So, do we as those in pursuit of Destiny. Though sometimes things are unfamiliar and is the unknown, look to the things, the people, the confidants that can give you a dose of reassurance. Keep it moving. You are going in the right direction. You will reach your destiny if you dont faint.
Be assured today that your Destiny is sealed. Your dreams are mainifesting..
Today was a GROWING DAY....
I just want to take a moment to thank my mother for all her love and devotion over the pass two years. She is a real soldier. If you ever need someone on your team thru the storm and rain...She's the one...LOYAL should be her first name...Love you Mother Dearest...
So, I got all the checked luggage down to 50lbs., and me and my little one were off...Starting our new lives, venturing on our new found territory...It feels good...
We touched down in Puerto Rico...staying here overnight at a resort on the beach...The kicker is, the last three days a hurricane was passing by...So, all water activities have been suspended...But, Im just glad to be "closer to my dream"....
Taking the taxi to the hotel was easy and simple. A porter greeted us at the Airport to help us with our 4 large bags and 3 carryons..That was great...He took us straight to a van taxi..($5 tip). Our hotel was less than 5miles away...taxi fees $11.50 plus $1 per bag...thats okay..I understand...It was slow that day and he was trying to make it up on me.....I was just glad someone was there to help us with all that heavy luggage..then the bell hop tip ($5)...So, the cost to get us to our hotel room..$28...not bad for two people, right?
As we walked into our beautiful hotel room, with all the tropical flair, Jamaal looks so sad...Then the tears started flowing...He missed his dog, he missed his brother....MY HEART BROKE....for the first time I felt a little scared. I didnt want him to be sad about all of this...I want him to be his loving and cheerful self...So, I quickly reassured him that we are going to be fine. Christian is at college and even if we were still at home...Christian would still be at college. We will see Christian at Christmas and we will work on getting the dog here as soon as possible. Perhpas, we can get another dog....BOy, did that lift his spirits...I hugged him tightly..And reassured him, we are going to be fine...then I called my mother....She talked him up...next then I know he was fine..watching Good Luck Charlie...or something like that on Nick..Later that evening, as we walked thru the lobby, he said.."I love this place...I dont ever want to leave." He just need reassurance...Don't we all sometimes..
Our plane is scheduled to leave for Dominica at noon in the morning...pick up time 9:30am...Now, we are talking...A representative from Ross with be at the airport to greet us...SO, that's cool..then it's off to our new home....Change is good....
Reassurance is defined as the actions of removing someones doubts or fears. How important is it for you to know you are on the right path in life. Just as an eight year old boy needed reassurance from his mother. So, do we as those in pursuit of Destiny. Though sometimes things are unfamiliar and is the unknown, look to the things, the people, the confidants that can give you a dose of reassurance. Keep it moving. You are going in the right direction. You will reach your destiny if you dont faint.
Be assured today that your Destiny is sealed. Your dreams are mainifesting..
Today was a GROWING DAY....
Sunday, August 21, 2011
3 Days to go...
All the details for our departure have been taken care of:
Two round trip tickets
Custom papers
Luggage
Best Wishes, etc
Not sure how I feel right now....Im excited that this time is finally here....But, I feel numb...
Im ready to get started..Let's GOOOOO...
Two round trip tickets
Custom papers
Luggage
Best Wishes, etc
Not sure how I feel right now....Im excited that this time is finally here....But, I feel numb...
Im ready to get started..Let's GOOOOO...
Friday, August 19, 2011
What a FEELING.....!!!!
Another early morning for us. Christian is being dropped off to college. I thought I was prepared for this ocassion. I have given him everything I had in me, in order for him to be successful in life. Now, it is up to him to use what I've given him and all the other positive influences in his life to make his life "SING" the song he chooses.
As we arrived on campus (early), there were students and parents scrambling around to get settled in the dorms. The dorms these days look like luxury apartments. This generation is so blessed. The university provided volunteers to assist us with all his stuff. I had to rent a 16' truck to take all of his stuff. Not that he had enough to fill it up, that was all the trucking company had available. So, the unloading part only took less than 10 minutes. This was really cool....Chrisitan is such a delightful kid (young man), I know he will do well.
We decide to go to lunch....before Jamaal and I hit the road. During lunch I give him several options:
1. He could bag out now and live with me until he's 50yrs old with no worries, except being a bummmm and very little self respect....
2. He could bag out now and take the next year to travel and tour the world, then pick this back up in a year, OR
3. He could go forward and excell as he has been taught to do, to finish what he started with no excuses.
Like the smart and intelligent young man he is he chose option #1...No, just kidding. He chose option #3. He knows he has all the tools needed to accomplish his goals and he feels he is ready to soar. Now, that's my SON...(SMILE)
So, as we were departing...Jamaal tears started to flow....By the time I made it to the first stop sign on campus, I could not contain my overflowing tears.....You have to be kidding me. Me crying? over progress, a step in the right direction...Come on, Joyce...get it together...LOL
I soon realized that from day one, I took my parenting very serious. I wanted this day to be as joyous and happy for him as any other major accomplish in his life....Also, I wondering what he father would say or do today....I know that his father would be sooooooo PROUD of him...
Christian is an Awesome Young MAN....Many Blessings to him and his endeavors........
Here is a copy of the text he sent me as I was driving:
"Thank you and I love you, too.. Also, I just wanted to say, I am very thankful to have u in my life. You have shown me wonderful things and have taught me the sky is the limit. You are a fantastic mother!!!!"
Now, how can I stop these tears from flowing with a text like this...I almost had to pull over. As I looked through my rear view mirror...Jamaal tears have turned into a river and he said, "It's the sun in my eyes.." too funny....I said, something similar when my dear husband was making his transition, "my sinuses are acting up."
These boys are my world...Im am sooo blessed. What a FEELING!!!!!
As we arrived on campus (early), there were students and parents scrambling around to get settled in the dorms. The dorms these days look like luxury apartments. This generation is so blessed. The university provided volunteers to assist us with all his stuff. I had to rent a 16' truck to take all of his stuff. Not that he had enough to fill it up, that was all the trucking company had available. So, the unloading part only took less than 10 minutes. This was really cool....Chrisitan is such a delightful kid (young man), I know he will do well.
We decide to go to lunch....before Jamaal and I hit the road. During lunch I give him several options:
1. He could bag out now and live with me until he's 50yrs old with no worries, except being a bummmm and very little self respect....
2. He could bag out now and take the next year to travel and tour the world, then pick this back up in a year, OR
3. He could go forward and excell as he has been taught to do, to finish what he started with no excuses.
Like the smart and intelligent young man he is he chose option #1...No, just kidding. He chose option #3. He knows he has all the tools needed to accomplish his goals and he feels he is ready to soar. Now, that's my SON...(SMILE)
So, as we were departing...Jamaal tears started to flow....By the time I made it to the first stop sign on campus, I could not contain my overflowing tears.....You have to be kidding me. Me crying? over progress, a step in the right direction...Come on, Joyce...get it together...LOL
I soon realized that from day one, I took my parenting very serious. I wanted this day to be as joyous and happy for him as any other major accomplish in his life....Also, I wondering what he father would say or do today....I know that his father would be sooooooo PROUD of him...
Christian is an Awesome Young MAN....Many Blessings to him and his endeavors........
Here is a copy of the text he sent me as I was driving:
"Thank you and I love you, too.. Also, I just wanted to say, I am very thankful to have u in my life. You have shown me wonderful things and have taught me the sky is the limit. You are a fantastic mother!!!!"
Now, how can I stop these tears from flowing with a text like this...I almost had to pull over. As I looked through my rear view mirror...Jamaal tears have turned into a river and he said, "It's the sun in my eyes.." too funny....I said, something similar when my dear husband was making his transition, "my sinuses are acting up."
These boys are my world...Im am sooo blessed. What a FEELING!!!!!
Thursday, August 18, 2011
5 days and counting...Back to the Original PLAN
Okay, I came up with wonderful idea to keep our shipping of our personal belongings and cost down to a minimum, right? Well, Im glad that I did. I just purchased 3 extra large suitcases and began packing. It was fun and exciting. Im trying to make sure Jamaal has everything he needs to feel comfortable and at home. Well, Im packing along side my oldest son, who is going off to college tomorrow. He's taking more stuff to college than the both of us (Jamaal and I).
Anyway, my garage is a mess with all the stuff spread out everywhere. It looks like it's going to be a momentous feat to get all this stuff in 3 suitcases. Im actually taking 5 suitcases and 3 carryons. I hope they let me pay the extra $35 for it....It's a lot cheaper than shipping...As I began, things started clearing out pretty quickly. All the extra stuff, is going to stay in my garage. So, I deemed a few things unnecessary for this adventure. So, it all worked out great. Jamaal would come out to the garage every now and then and say, "Wow, you sure have gotten a lot done." Im glad he's able to understand what real progress is..action=accomplishment...LOL.
We began to weigh each suitcase to make sure they were not over 50lbs with this super old scale, that should be in the trash...But, I saw it sitting there, so I thought perhaps it can give me a gauge on weight. Well, all suitcases were running about 60lbs. How could this be? Is the scale off or can only go up to 60lbs? To eliminate the excess weight, I decided to get two large boxes and restructure the suitcases and ship the boxes. Well, as I began shopping around for quotes. The shipping fees were outrageous. For two boxes weighing about 30lbs each, it would cost approx. $800. That is CRAZY....
So, Back to the original plan. I am going out tomorrow and buying a shipping barrel for $65 and ship it. The shipping barrel is about 24x24x43. So, I will be able to get all the stuff in the boxes into it and then some. I found the cost to ship to Dominica around $145 per barrel. Now, that is reasonable...Actually, the shipping company that Ross recommends only charges $74 per barrel, but the issue is getting the barrel to Miami from here.
It's funny how sometimes you can plan something in your head, but once you began to put the plan into action things are different. Is this what they call trial and error? The things or people that you tried to incorporate into your plans, were really insignificant to you accomplishing your plan. Or you find out that your original plan works best. Well, proven systems are in place (there's nothing new under the sun) but curiosity and the need to explore sometimes may cause you to take a path that takes a little longer than planned and/or necessary. This is OKAY. Because, the beauty of it all is, you will make it to your destinantion, if you dont give up.
As you plan you day, week, month, or LIFE, know that sometimes going BACK to THE ORIGINAL plan is okay. Be Blessed as you move towards DESTINY...
Anyway, my garage is a mess with all the stuff spread out everywhere. It looks like it's going to be a momentous feat to get all this stuff in 3 suitcases. Im actually taking 5 suitcases and 3 carryons. I hope they let me pay the extra $35 for it....It's a lot cheaper than shipping...As I began, things started clearing out pretty quickly. All the extra stuff, is going to stay in my garage. So, I deemed a few things unnecessary for this adventure. So, it all worked out great. Jamaal would come out to the garage every now and then and say, "Wow, you sure have gotten a lot done." Im glad he's able to understand what real progress is..action=accomplishment...LOL.
We began to weigh each suitcase to make sure they were not over 50lbs with this super old scale, that should be in the trash...But, I saw it sitting there, so I thought perhaps it can give me a gauge on weight. Well, all suitcases were running about 60lbs. How could this be? Is the scale off or can only go up to 60lbs? To eliminate the excess weight, I decided to get two large boxes and restructure the suitcases and ship the boxes. Well, as I began shopping around for quotes. The shipping fees were outrageous. For two boxes weighing about 30lbs each, it would cost approx. $800. That is CRAZY....
So, Back to the original plan. I am going out tomorrow and buying a shipping barrel for $65 and ship it. The shipping barrel is about 24x24x43. So, I will be able to get all the stuff in the boxes into it and then some. I found the cost to ship to Dominica around $145 per barrel. Now, that is reasonable...Actually, the shipping company that Ross recommends only charges $74 per barrel, but the issue is getting the barrel to Miami from here.
It's funny how sometimes you can plan something in your head, but once you began to put the plan into action things are different. Is this what they call trial and error? The things or people that you tried to incorporate into your plans, were really insignificant to you accomplishing your plan. Or you find out that your original plan works best. Well, proven systems are in place (there's nothing new under the sun) but curiosity and the need to explore sometimes may cause you to take a path that takes a little longer than planned and/or necessary. This is OKAY. Because, the beauty of it all is, you will make it to your destinantion, if you dont give up.
As you plan you day, week, month, or LIFE, know that sometimes going BACK to THE ORIGINAL plan is okay. Be Blessed as you move towards DESTINY...
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Housing Dilemma
Can you imagine a beautiful summer vacation home in the Carribean? I could imagine the beautiful bright colors of the decor, a nice summer breeze blowing in my hair as I sit out on my balcony drinking a refreshing drink, listening to some music and enjoying the splendor of the mesmerizing blue waters and enjoying life. Well, that's something to look forward to, but that's not what our experience is going to be in our new apartment on Dominica. I have decided to keep everything simple. It's a very modest 2 bedroom apartment. A lot of mixed matched furniture, no stainless steel appliances, but they all work. We are not going to be there forever, just 16 months. I know it is going to be a cultural shock for my son. But, he is a happy kid and I know he will adjust well. So, our first semester, I'm going low key. I've decided to keep my living expensives at a minimal until I get accustom to the atmosphere and establish a monthly budget. Perhaps, our last semester on the island, I will reward our hard work and effort with a beach front property and live the carribean dream..LOL
We have exactly 9 days before we hit the island of Dominica and I have not received my approved lease from the housing department at Ross. Should I panic? Should I be concerned? No, I dont think so...As I make the necessary arrangements, it is always important to have a contigency plan. So, I made direct contact with the owner of the property and arranged to close out the deal once I was on the island. She has assured me that the apartment is ours and no need to worry. So, if Ross is behind on reveiwing leases, there is shelter for us..LOL...
I decided to take the very minimal stuff with us. At least the first semester, we are going to be engulfed in establishing systems and exploring our new environment. Also, I think it will be great to get out of our normal habitat and experience a different culture and different way of life and gain a great appreciation for lavish lifestyle in the US. I already know we are truly bless, now my son will be able to see first hand how blessed he is...
Sometimes in life there are times when the future seems unknown and uncertain. But, we must always reflect on pass experiences of provision and solutions that were provided. Worrying and stressing over details will only take away from the beautiful experience you are walking through. I'm not going to let worry of the unknown take away this most exciting time in our lives. This has to be one of the most pivotal events of my life and I am going to make sure Im taking in all the beauty it has to offer. The days may be a little hectic, but at the end of the day, all is well.
How are you handling the dilemmas in your life? Let the peace of GOD guard your heart and mind thru His Spirit. There is nothing occuring in your life that can not be solved or will not pass. Just take a deep breath, ask for guidance and receive the answer. Then you must act. The only way dilemmas make their transitions to solutions is to make a decision to act. Do not sit back and let things happen to you, make things happen for you. For every dilemma there are at least two solutions...BELIEVE THAT!
NOW, GO DO IT...
We have exactly 9 days before we hit the island of Dominica and I have not received my approved lease from the housing department at Ross. Should I panic? Should I be concerned? No, I dont think so...As I make the necessary arrangements, it is always important to have a contigency plan. So, I made direct contact with the owner of the property and arranged to close out the deal once I was on the island. She has assured me that the apartment is ours and no need to worry. So, if Ross is behind on reveiwing leases, there is shelter for us..LOL...
I decided to take the very minimal stuff with us. At least the first semester, we are going to be engulfed in establishing systems and exploring our new environment. Also, I think it will be great to get out of our normal habitat and experience a different culture and different way of life and gain a great appreciation for lavish lifestyle in the US. I already know we are truly bless, now my son will be able to see first hand how blessed he is...
Sometimes in life there are times when the future seems unknown and uncertain. But, we must always reflect on pass experiences of provision and solutions that were provided. Worrying and stressing over details will only take away from the beautiful experience you are walking through. I'm not going to let worry of the unknown take away this most exciting time in our lives. This has to be one of the most pivotal events of my life and I am going to make sure Im taking in all the beauty it has to offer. The days may be a little hectic, but at the end of the day, all is well.
How are you handling the dilemmas in your life? Let the peace of GOD guard your heart and mind thru His Spirit. There is nothing occuring in your life that can not be solved or will not pass. Just take a deep breath, ask for guidance and receive the answer. Then you must act. The only way dilemmas make their transitions to solutions is to make a decision to act. Do not sit back and let things happen to you, make things happen for you. For every dilemma there are at least two solutions...BELIEVE THAT!
NOW, GO DO IT...
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Progressive Academic Education Program Invite
Okay...now....it's getting real serious....I am on my way to medical school....WOW...After three interesting years of getting prereqs done...The day is quickly approaching....
My checklist is almost complete....Im just sitting back now...contemplating the atmosphere...
I received an email the other day that started off like this:
"I would first like to congratulate you on your academic performance in preparation for medical studies and your recent admission to Ross University School of Medicine (RUSM). Based on your solid academic record, it is with great pleasure that we invite you to participate in the Progressive Academic Education (PAcE) program. The PAcE approach gives you greater flexibility, focused small group learning and the opportunity to develop and hone self-directed learning skills – an invaluable asset in your medical career....."
Now, I'm trying to decipher if this is a compliment or are they saying, "look you need all the help that you can get so, you better participate in this"..LOL.. I've been searching the school's website to find out more about the program..But, the information is very vague. It sounds attractive in the fact that it gives me greater flexibility and more contact with the professors....Greater Flexibility is good, right?
Well, I would like to hit the ground running...So, if the PAcE Program will enhance my academic education then...Im all in.....I wish I could find some current students that are participating in it now.
I will attend the oreintation on Aug 30th to find out more information....this is exciting....Just as I was ending this blog, I found more information: " PAcE is designed to better serve those students who are motivated, self-directed learners. Invitation to the program is offered to selected students from the incoming class, although enrollment is completely voluntary. Participants in the PAcE Program study independently and complete the learning objectives at their own pace, but they do meet with faculty regularly to evaluate their progress through weekly quizzes and clinical case studies."
Okay, I guess it is a compliment......But, I'll make that decision on Aug 30th, until then..Keep up the PACE......HaHaHa
My checklist is almost complete....Im just sitting back now...contemplating the atmosphere...
I received an email the other day that started off like this:
"I would first like to congratulate you on your academic performance in preparation for medical studies and your recent admission to Ross University School of Medicine (RUSM). Based on your solid academic record, it is with great pleasure that we invite you to participate in the Progressive Academic Education (PAcE) program. The PAcE approach gives you greater flexibility, focused small group learning and the opportunity to develop and hone self-directed learning skills – an invaluable asset in your medical career....."
Now, I'm trying to decipher if this is a compliment or are they saying, "look you need all the help that you can get so, you better participate in this"..LOL.. I've been searching the school's website to find out more about the program..But, the information is very vague. It sounds attractive in the fact that it gives me greater flexibility and more contact with the professors....Greater Flexibility is good, right?
Well, I would like to hit the ground running...So, if the PAcE Program will enhance my academic education then...Im all in.....I wish I could find some current students that are participating in it now.
I will attend the oreintation on Aug 30th to find out more information....this is exciting....Just as I was ending this blog, I found more information: " PAcE is designed to better serve those students who are motivated, self-directed learners. Invitation to the program is offered to selected students from the incoming class, although enrollment is completely voluntary. Participants in the PAcE Program study independently and complete the learning objectives at their own pace, but they do meet with faculty regularly to evaluate their progress through weekly quizzes and clinical case studies."
Okay, I guess it is a compliment......But, I'll make that decision on Aug 30th, until then..Keep up the PACE......HaHaHa
Friday, August 5, 2011
What Should I take with us?
Okay, now that my wonderful vacation is over, all that is left is for me is to decide what I am going to take with us....Im at a stand still when it comes to this...Do I take only the minimum which would be clothes, and Jamaal fun stuff..or the whole house and with the kitchen sink?
I am not going to over pack as I normally do. For our road trip, I packed so much stuff our car was low riding...So, since we will be home every 4months...I think sticking to the basics will do..
I just have to have enough stuff to entertain the little one...
So, I am going to purchase new luggage this weekend...Pack whatever can fit and be done with it...Yeah..That's what I am going to do..I am going to get about 10 suitcases...LOL..just kidding...4 large suitcases and two carryon bags......I'll pay to luggage fee....So, that I dont have to deal with a shipping company...
I called a shipping company today and she stated I would first need to purchase a shipping barrel up to 75 gallons...pack it, then have it picked up and shipped to them..and they would take it from there..Well, I dont feel like doing all of that..I just want to pack my suitcases and go....
What will we need:
CLothes, toiletries, entertainment stuff and that's it right?? Im sure they have food there...We will get use to whatever's available...It's a different way of life...I can't wait...
We are simple people..although we do live a FABULOUS life I must say...But, I'm ready to experience the simple life...I get a real kick out of camping with no electricity, leaving the electronic world behind...Although we all have come acustom to being available every single moment of the day, with our cell phones, now with skype, we can see and talk to people on our cell phones...SO, moving a few thousand of miles away, will only feel like I feel now...My friends and family are only a call away, a skype away, or a plane away...
So, Im taking only the basics....When we come home at Christmas break if we need anything extra I will make the necessary adjustments.
KISS: Keep it simple St$%^^
I am not going to over pack as I normally do. For our road trip, I packed so much stuff our car was low riding...So, since we will be home every 4months...I think sticking to the basics will do..
I just have to have enough stuff to entertain the little one...
So, I am going to purchase new luggage this weekend...Pack whatever can fit and be done with it...Yeah..That's what I am going to do..I am going to get about 10 suitcases...LOL..just kidding...4 large suitcases and two carryon bags......I'll pay to luggage fee....So, that I dont have to deal with a shipping company...
I called a shipping company today and she stated I would first need to purchase a shipping barrel up to 75 gallons...pack it, then have it picked up and shipped to them..and they would take it from there..Well, I dont feel like doing all of that..I just want to pack my suitcases and go....
What will we need:
CLothes, toiletries, entertainment stuff and that's it right?? Im sure they have food there...We will get use to whatever's available...It's a different way of life...I can't wait...
We are simple people..although we do live a FABULOUS life I must say...But, I'm ready to experience the simple life...I get a real kick out of camping with no electricity, leaving the electronic world behind...Although we all have come acustom to being available every single moment of the day, with our cell phones, now with skype, we can see and talk to people on our cell phones...SO, moving a few thousand of miles away, will only feel like I feel now...My friends and family are only a call away, a skype away, or a plane away...
So, Im taking only the basics....When we come home at Christmas break if we need anything extra I will make the necessary adjustments.
KISS: Keep it simple St$%^^
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Where's a Gas Station?
Well, the boys and I have been on an 18 day Family Road Trip. Our last destination, NEW YORK CITY...Before arriving to NYC, we stopped off in Philadelphia for a couple of days to take a look at the Liberty Bell and her crack, try an authentic Philly Cheese Steak and head to the CITY....
Well, since we had been on the road over two weeks the boys needed a hair cut..and I mean bad...So, I search the web to find a Philly Barber that can cut..I found a shop about 45minutes away from us and it was worth the drive....However, little did I know the route we were driving had little to no visible gas stations...As we journeyed on our way, I notice our gas hand was on E and the light was on...So, I said to myself, surely there are gas stations at almost every corner...Right???....Wrong...As we exiting off of the freeway at Lincoln Park Avenue...not a gas station in sight....Lincoln Park Avenue was the entrance to a PARK, the most beautiful scenery imaginable. The fresh lush green trees, the winding roads...the small town feel was absolutely spectacular....However, inside I was panicing. I was trying to admire the scenery and relax...But, the road seemed to get longer and longer with more twist and turns...I was SCARED....I should have learned something from my husband. He would never let the gas hand go below half of a tank...But, me...NO...I like to live on the edge.....Now, here I am with one teenager and an eight year old...Thousands of miles from home and on the verge of running out of gas...this is crazy....
Then finally, I saw someone I could ask for directions to a gas station. He said, "make a right and keep going straight." What a relief I thought...I sure hope he's right....Well, we journeyed on about a mile and there it was...TWO BEAUTIFUL GAS STATIONS.. We had our choice to choose...Jamaal screamed, " let go to to the one with food..." Now, that's just like him...LOL
So, we filled up our tank, grab some snacks...and headed for the barber shop...Incidently the gas station was actually in route to the shop, just about 3miles down the road. It's funny how sometimes, we can not see what's up the road, but if we continue on the road, it will lead us to exactly what we are looking for...Haven't you found that to be true? Now, I had directions in my hand, I asked for more directions, and the path that I was to take had everything I needed on it. Now, that is Divine Provision.
So, as you journey to work, to the barber shop, to school, to medical school....know this deep within....You have everything you need for the journey. There may be times when you have to pull over to gas up, grabs some snacks or just ask for reassurance...But, every step, every question, and every motion you take is leading you to your destination...DON'T STOP! DON'T TURN AROUND! You are almost there...
NOW, I SEE...I have everything I need for this life (the scriptures confirms this belief)...All I have to do, is trust my direction, trust my Provider, trust myself and I will arrive at my destination...NOW, that is COOOOL...
PS...Christian said that was the best hair cut he ever had....The barber got down....
Do you see your GAS STATION?
Well, since we had been on the road over two weeks the boys needed a hair cut..and I mean bad...So, I search the web to find a Philly Barber that can cut..I found a shop about 45minutes away from us and it was worth the drive....However, little did I know the route we were driving had little to no visible gas stations...As we journeyed on our way, I notice our gas hand was on E and the light was on...So, I said to myself, surely there are gas stations at almost every corner...Right???....Wrong...As we exiting off of the freeway at Lincoln Park Avenue...not a gas station in sight....Lincoln Park Avenue was the entrance to a PARK, the most beautiful scenery imaginable. The fresh lush green trees, the winding roads...the small town feel was absolutely spectacular....However, inside I was panicing. I was trying to admire the scenery and relax...But, the road seemed to get longer and longer with more twist and turns...I was SCARED....I should have learned something from my husband. He would never let the gas hand go below half of a tank...But, me...NO...I like to live on the edge.....Now, here I am with one teenager and an eight year old...Thousands of miles from home and on the verge of running out of gas...this is crazy....
Then finally, I saw someone I could ask for directions to a gas station. He said, "make a right and keep going straight." What a relief I thought...I sure hope he's right....Well, we journeyed on about a mile and there it was...TWO BEAUTIFUL GAS STATIONS.. We had our choice to choose...Jamaal screamed, " let go to to the one with food..." Now, that's just like him...LOL
So, we filled up our tank, grab some snacks...and headed for the barber shop...Incidently the gas station was actually in route to the shop, just about 3miles down the road. It's funny how sometimes, we can not see what's up the road, but if we continue on the road, it will lead us to exactly what we are looking for...Haven't you found that to be true? Now, I had directions in my hand, I asked for more directions, and the path that I was to take had everything I needed on it. Now, that is Divine Provision.
So, as you journey to work, to the barber shop, to school, to medical school....know this deep within....You have everything you need for the journey. There may be times when you have to pull over to gas up, grabs some snacks or just ask for reassurance...But, every step, every question, and every motion you take is leading you to your destination...DON'T STOP! DON'T TURN AROUND! You are almost there...
NOW, I SEE...I have everything I need for this life (the scriptures confirms this belief)...All I have to do, is trust my direction, trust my Provider, trust myself and I will arrive at my destination...NOW, that is COOOOL...
PS...Christian said that was the best hair cut he ever had....The barber got down....
Do you see your GAS STATION?
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